Ever dated a man who was way more emotional than you were? He was the co-dependent, clingy, needy and insecure one? He was the one who needed assurance from you and that you’ll never walk away.
Men will never admit they are emotional. You see being emotional can be in so many levels and not just crying to a sad movie.
Here are some pointers that you could or have dated an emo-sapien:
He feels neglected when you are out with your friends and you did not invite him
He’s sensitive to everything you say and oblivious to everything he says
He instantly wants to be open about the relationship and is upset if you need time
He wants to hang out with the gang all the time so that he could constantly be with you
When there is a fight, you have to be the one calling and consoling him
You always need to understand where he is coming from
He’s always the victim
The term ‘personal space’ has no meaning to him
You have to be the strong one for him every time shit happens
He keeps calling and calling and calling if you don’t pick up
He sends you lengthy messages on the phone about how he feels
He keeps holding your hands even at a friend’s place during a game of monopoly
Emo is men’s taboo word, call them that and they become instantly over sensitive and terribly defensive.
I admit I would like a sensitive man but someone who’s able to understand my temperaments and my feelings just as how I would his…. period. I don’t want to be caught in an emotional web where everything is about his feelings, his needs and his wants.
My man has to be a man, to be the one for me when I fall, to be my pillar of strength and most importantly to allow me to be the woman in the relationship.
"emo-sapien"
ReplyDeleteHaha, genius!!!
i thought u were more like the man in a relationship. whacking him up etc.....
ReplyDeletehaha...how to get the perfect blend of emo-ness and macho-ness for every girl? show emotions - too emo. dont show emotions - heartless. be in the middle still get scolding. :)
haha...yeah....emo we are :D
You got it wrong my friend. There's a difference between sensitive and over sensitive, having space and being clingy. Then again, it also depends on the kind of woman you date. So always a good balance and what is expected of your partner :)
ReplyDeleteI think pets are easier. :D
ReplyDeletehahaha
Women...can't live with them...can't live without them
ReplyDeletewoman without her man is nothing
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woman without her man is nothing?????????
ReplyDelete'Sucasa Micasa' - Have you ever thought that the reason your partner is emo is because both you guys came to a point where there is a conflict which is not addressed and hence the only way to resolve this is finding a partner whom you could communicate without taking much effort and finding the kindred spirit in her/him that will make your relationship better.
ReplyDeleteNah, some men are just way to emotional for their own good, but thanx for the point though :)
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