Yes him, the jackass that broke your heart, left you for another woman, that didn’t pick up your calls, who said he was not ready for commitment after a night of passion. What makes us crave for these men so much? The fact that we cannot own them or that the closure was missing.
In every woman’s life, we would encounter at least one bastard, albeit some of us have a larger share in dating assholes. My theory to this is since God made us perfect, He has to give us that one thing to mess with our emotions and lives up. Aah…the conundrum of being perfect!
So how do we get over someone who trampled our hearts? Immediately delete whatever photos, numbers, letters, emails or smses you have of him, because going over those mushy times will only make you remember the good times and forget the fact that he dumped you!
And what is it about alcohol that fills your brain with hay and forces you to make that one call that will ruin your life forever…calling him!!! So the next time you decide to intoxicate yourself, surrender your phone to a good girlfriend who under no circumstances will hand you the phone for any call you desperately need to make at 4am.
Any bastard who wishes to remain friends after leaving you stranded is in one word a bastard…..and are we friends with bastards? No we are not cuz we deserve better than that. These sleazy men who want to be ‘friends’ have only one agenda in their head (am I not referring to the one resting on their shoulders ladies)
Use revenge and pain as your motivation to start looking great. The one thing every woman wishes for her ex to see, is her at her utmost best. Get a wax, tone your legs, flex those muscles, lose some weight, put some make up on, get a great pair of shoes and a sexy dress and strut yourself at his favorite joint. Let him feast his eyes and curse himself for letting you go
And finally what better way to get over him? Go on dates, although you won’t be emotionally ready for a commitment, but then again who’s asking you to get into a relationship. Just get back into the single’s world and enjoy the options that will be in front of you. You never know who becomes the hits or the misses if you don’t give it a try now, would you?
sounds like so much of effort and work....and where is the healing part btw??adding on to yours, i personally believe that anyone who is heartbroken should be completly focused on themselves and do things for them...well u can do all d workout and sexy walkin & dressin,body building and tummy trimming, but if your doing that hoping that ur ex will be regretting of letting u go, then ur right on a wrong track...resulting more heartache...alternatatively a person can start with cleansing deep inside and mentally....reminding urself that the world is too big for u to even have d slightest thought about someone who dumped u,and there is always a beginning for every ending..whatever it is, life goes on...and people move on..there are some people still walkin with their past emotional baggage and screwing up their own current life...so its utmost important to find a way to heal coz past haunts....no matter what takes place in our lives, we always have an advantage in the name of choice....no matter what d fact is in ur life...what counts is how you accept and handle it...be involved and keep urself occupied in fun activities...and soon d pain will be gone....and what didnt kill u only made u stronger......
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